RELATIONSHIP GOALS

RELATIONSHIP GOALS

           Firstly to all my viewers, wishing you all a VERY HAPPY FRIENDSHIPS                                                                            DAY!!

It’s a certain thing for most us that,  we don’t know each other “that well” so, wishing such a thing seems a little less important. No worries! But at least showing such gestures at the first place is what more important, getting respond is like the secondary fact that can be either in your favor or not. But “at least...” make a effort to try😉!

 

  So, about the topic, the followings are merely just the thoughts that I acquired & developed through the passage of my time, from my 12 years of school till my current college time which btw, is going great..!😁

  Since it say “GOALS”, so lets try to connect with “sports” that had made most of our school life “D MEMORABLE” time. For every sport, the main GOAL of every team is to “win” at last, no matter how! Now, about this “how ”word, if we sit back a little & carefully tries to analyse it, one may get abundant perceptions,views, and even confidence out of it, YES..! Therefore, today I’d like to sit with you all and tell about WHAT I framed out of this MIRACLE word through the  love of our school time (SPORTS).

   The first word at the top is something that is applicable in more than one place. And from my voyage through different time period, I may tell about till the FRIENDSHIP part only...😅

  Most Friendships always starts with an “accident” only. Whether, asking for a pen, last bench left besides you for someone unknown to you, and from nowhere an idiot just popped out next to you & then started his own conversation, giving a damn whether you’re even interested or not. But, these moments only are “THE MEMORIES” that one should realize, be happy & give respect to it cause from there only, we all get “someone” to whom we may sit next together(COMFORT), ask for a pen (SUPPORT) & anytime can have a random conversation with no second thoughts at all (FAITH).

   Initially, we don’t realize “how” some RANDOM people can become so close to each other and get all the (ESSENTIALS) from one another. But now,maybe we may answer it TOGETHER. For having a proper balance we always need something that is “even in number” like- 02 Tyre bicycles, 04 Tyre automobile. And for this relationship also, I like to talk about the four pillars that may make one beautiful.

 

 

 

   First is “Understanding” . Playing a sport without even knowing it’s rules might shows about someone that they have that excitement and physical energy to go for it but at last did something wrong which they might not even aware about it.

 Similarly, in one relationship,one may strongly attracted towards one another (maybe physically) but the fact about not knowing one another principles, about their capabilities, about their inner emotions can lead to something that simply bad for both & they might not even realize it. So, investing time to get each other very well truly proves to be fruitful!

 

  Second is “Courage”. Every sports asks you for your courage. Whether to accept the fact that there is winning & loosing is there at the same time or you opponent might be more powerful than you but having one thing will surely help one to overtake these thoughts & move forward , THE CONFIDENCE. In any relationship, if we have the COURAGE to accept all flaws & drawbacks of our other half, that can give us the CONFIDENCE about “how” to ride a healthy relationship together ahead. Remembering the FIRST PILLAR can help us to achieve it.

 

   Third is “Trust”. Team is something without which no person can win any game in his/her life. And without Trust, no team can be formed. In every relationship too, TRUST is first thing that is required in a long run but it can only be achieved "truly" IF YOU KNOW THE WEAKNESSES OF THE NEXT PERSON. Those weak points only tells us the crucial points about his/her personality. Strong points of one can give us the confidence, sure but the true trust is only arises through the weaknesses of one another only. And here, the SECOND PILLAR may help us out.

 

   Last but not least, the last pillar which plays an important role in balancing the other three pillar & i.e.  the “+ve” which is nothing but an outcome. The feeling at this last pillar is just like the feeling after winning a game.

  

   But, just like the fact of even possibility for loosing the game, our relationship too has a chance of not being an ideal one! but WE ALL SHOULD ALWAYS TRY TO FOCUS ON THE BRIGHT SIDE OF IT AND ENJOY THE PRECIOUS HAPPY MOMENTS.

  

“Giving up should not be an option cause every game gives us precious experiences

that eventually lead us to path of our desired achievement ”

 

So, this Friendships Day, I hope all the friends out there tied together at every moment when they needed each other “the most” for their entire life!✌

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